2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.
In doing some reflecting lately I began to think about a saying I have heard, and have repeated at times. That saying: We are the sum total of our life experiences. This is a true statement, however, we need to look beyond this statement to the future.
Some people continue forward in life and want to shift all responsibility for their decisions and actions to everything that took place in their past... I don't accept this. Sadly society has accepted this, and even encouraged it, unintentionally I would hope. When people refuse to accept that they are responsible for their actions, and not all the events of the past, then they can move forward.
We all have those defining moments, or even series of events that we can allow to dictate everything that we do in life. Almost 4 years ago I lost the man that I loved since high school, he was part of my life for over 30 years. At that moment I had 2 choices, I could let his death put me into a "why me" cycle or I could make the choice to move forward and continue to live. That's what I did, I chose to move forward from the depth of a broken heart and walk forward into the future.
What that future is, I still don't know, but that's okay. What I do know, is that just like in years past, when something hurt me or angered me, as I chose to release it I would then able to move on to something good. Rom 8:28 tells me: "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose." And that's what I have chosen to trust in.
There is nothing positive to be found by blaming things on events, people or situations in the past or allowing them to birth bitterness in our hearts.
Pro 15:13 A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance,But by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken.
Pro 17:22 A merry heart does good, like medicine,But a broken spirit dries the bones.
Luke 6:45 says “A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart brings forth evil. For out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks."
I want to have a joyful heart, so I chose to release the past and let the Lord fill my heart with His goodness. I want to speak life!!
Mary... a.k.a Prairiemouse